I'm a big believer that a pastor should not beg the church for money. It really bothers me when pastors use gimmicks, tricks, pressure and manipulation to get people to give. It's distasteful and doesn't help the cause of Christ. I am a huge believer in teaching God's people how to be good stewards. I believe it's a pastor's responsibility to teach the whole counsel of God's Word and that includes finances. I do not shy away from teaching PC about biblical stewardship. I do an entire series on stewardship every year. Greed, consumerism and not putting God first are destroying people's lives, and we must address it head on. But I will not beg people to give to the church, and you shouldn't either!
Thursday, August 14, 2008
STOP BEGGING
I'm a big believer that a pastor should not beg the church for money. It really bothers me when pastors use gimmicks, tricks, pressure and manipulation to get people to give. It's distasteful and doesn't help the cause of Christ. I am a huge believer in teaching God's people how to be good stewards. I believe it's a pastor's responsibility to teach the whole counsel of God's Word and that includes finances. I do not shy away from teaching PC about biblical stewardship. I do an entire series on stewardship every year. Greed, consumerism and not putting God first are destroying people's lives, and we must address it head on. But I will not beg people to give to the church, and you shouldn't either!
Wednesday, August 13, 2008
STOP BEGGING pt. 2
There is nothing worse than a pastor begging like Keith Sweat. Some of you are saying, "Who in the world is Keith Sweat?" He was an R & B singer who was known for BEGGING! Pastors, we are not called to beg. We are called to cast a compelling vision. Begging people to volunteer in ministry never works (long-term). You may guilt trip someone into serving, but they won't be passionate about it because they signed up for all the wrong reasons. Their motivation was the fact that you begged and pleaded about a certain need in the church. If you brow beat, holler at, complain, nag and beg your congregation to volunteer, none of them will serve joyfully (long-term). It just doesn't work. We must teach God's people to have servants’ hearts. We have to help people see how their serving plays a huge roll in advancing the vision. We have to help them see how their serving is helping the church see more changed lives. Vision casting not begging is what causes people to volunteer! NO MORE KEITH SWEAT!
Tuesday, August 12, 2008
STOP BEGGING
If a pastor is not careful, he can go from leading people to begging people. Over the six years of leading People's Church, I've learned that it's not good to beg. Begging only causes you more problems. QUIT BEGGING!
Stop Begging People Who Want To Leave Your Church To Stay
1. If somebody is not for the vision, then they are not for the vision. Quit trying to convince them, and help them find another place where they can support the vision.
2. If someone is always complaining about the direction of the church, stop spending all of your time, energy and prayers pleading and begging two or three people to get it, and lead the rest. Don't let two or three people get you off track.
3. If someone tells you that they will leave the church or pull their support if you don't do what they want, lovingly and quickly show them the door. Don't you dare beg someone to stay just because they have influence. If they are trying to hijack the vision, they do not need to be on board the ship!
Monday, August 11, 2008
Weekend Update
1. It was a great Sunday at PC!
2. Tons of people gave their hearts to Christ, and I'm teaching a series on money. God desires for people to come to Christ no matter what the teaching series is about.
3. The Perfect Storm series is going great. Our society is experiencing a financial storm, and we are teaching our church how to be prepared and how to navigate through the storm (high gas prices, unstable housing market, rising food costs and a lackluster stock market).
4. We were 25 to 30 percent larger in attendance than the same weekend last year, and it was a great Sunday for us last year. There is incredible excitement and momentum at PC!
5. My family ate take-home Ted's Escondido Mexican food on Saturday and then leftovers on Sunday. It was some good stuff!
6. I put 30 minutes on the elliptical at the gym on Friday and Saturday. I'm glad I did after eating all the Mexican food.
7. I know many pastors hate teaching on finances, but I really enjoy it. I love seeing people experiencing financial freedom. I know one gentleman at PC who paid off his credit cards last year because of last year’s teaching on stewardship. It pumps me up watching people apply biblical principles to their finances. THEY REALLY DO WORK!
8. I am enjoying watching the Olympics. Michael Phelps is a swimming machine!
9. I was sure glad the construction crew added an extra 135 new parking spaces last week. Parking has been an issue at PC since day one. Church family, you no longer have to park in the gravel :)! Don't get too excited because when we move into our new 42,000 square foot addition God is going to blow the roof off this place, and we may need you in the gravel again. You folks are awesome to pastor!
10. Monday is going to be as great as you make it. So make it a great Monday!
Friday, August 8, 2008
Random Thoughts
2. I think Oklahoma City's new NBA team name will be Thunder.
3. I will be having several drafts for my fantasy football leagues. Yes, that's right, I play in several leagues. Love it!
4. We are going on a family date today!
5. Today is my off day. YEA!
6. Tonight at 7 PM is the married couple's connect at the church. Don't miss out on meeting some other couples at PC!
7. The construction crew was working like CRAZY on our new 42,000 square foot facility. They will have drilled 90 piers this week.
8. The foundation will be poured soon and right after that the steel will be coming up. More lives will be changed forever!
9. On Sunday, I will be continuing our series called The Perfect Storm. Don't you dare miss this teaching. God is going to help us navigate the storms!
10. Tiffany is catching up on sleep this morning, and I'm watching the kiddos!
11. God is good, and life is awesome! Make it a GREAT weekend!
Thursday, August 7, 2008
Preaching Is The Easy Part pt. 3
The Leadership Intensity
If you would have talked to me about the importance of leadership in the local church fifteen years ago, I would have said that it's not that big of a deal. I probably would have said, “Who cares about having good leadership, the key to an effective ministry is prayer, fasting, integrity, studying and preaching.” Although the list I just mentioned are the most important things for a ministry to be effective, there is a leadership side that is also required.
1. Leading a church
2. Leading people spiritually
3. Leading by example
4. Hiring staff
5. Letting go of staff
6. Developing staff
7. Recruiting and developing volunteers
8. Handling conflict
9. Making tough decisions
10. Taking calculated risks
11. Growing yourself
12. Dealing with difficult people
13. Criticism
14. Having vision for the future
Leadership is a vital part of what I do. I'm absolutely thrilled that God has called me to be a servant leader, but there are times the leadership is so intense that I feel like preaching is the easy part!
Wednesday, August 6, 2008
Preaching Is The Easy Part pt. 2
Most seminaries and universities that train men and woman for full-time ministry have classes for homiletics, hermeneutics, Greek, Hebrew and preaching. You may walk away from your training knowing how to pray, study and preach, but the vast majority of these institutions never prepare the minister for "the business side" of ministry. They don't prepare you for accounts receivable, accounts payable, establishing budgets, payroll, workmen's comp, health & dental insurance, church insurance policies, tax laws, purchasing land, borrowing money, raising money, building buildings, maintaining buildings and the list goes on and on.
When I first said yes to the call of God on my life to preach the gospel, to win the lost and to disciple God's people, I had no idea that accomplishing God's call would require me to understand "the business side". If today's minister is going to be effective, he or she has to be able to do more than study, pray and preach. I thank God that he has wired me and gifted me to understand and run "the business side," but there are days that "the business side" is so intense that it makes me think preaching is the easy part. CAN I GET AN AMEN!
Tuesday, August 5, 2008
Preaching Is The Easy Part pt. 1
The Weight
If you are a senior pastor, you know exactly what I'm talking about. There is a weight, a load, that we carry as the senior leader of the church. I have several pastor friends who spent years being associate pastors at churches, and now they are the senior pastor of a church. ALL OF THEM SAY, I MEAN ALL OF THEM say, the biggest difference is the weight that they have to carry. They all say that they didn't have near the weight, pressure, stress and load when they were associates. None of them had any clue that there would be this weight that they would carry as the senior pastor. It's hard to put it into words but there are times the weight is so heavy that I feel like preaching is the easy part.
Monday, August 4, 2008
Weekend Update
1. This was weekend number 2 with four kids, and I'm loving it! Kids are such a blessing!
2. We went on a family date on Friday. This was baby Case's first family date. The kids thought it was cool.
3. I began a new series yesterday called The Perfect Storm.
4. This series is designed to help people get through the financial storms that are happening in our society today. Think about the storms happening at the same time: gas prices are high, the housing market is unstable, the stock market is not performing well, food prices are on the rise and people are freaking out. What we are experiencing is what I have called The Perfect Storm! Please don't miss the next two Sundays. This teaching will help you navigate the financial storms of life.
5. I'm super pumped, and our church is super pumped about Ignite, the new college & 20 somethings experience beginning on August 24 @ 6PM.
6. My wife looks super hot after just having our fourth baby. She bounces back so quickly. What a trooper!
7. If you want to help us launch Ignite, be at our planning meeting on August 17 at People's Church @ 6PM.
8. Tons of people gave their hearts to Christ yesterday. LOVE IT!
9. Our worship team led us in the song ‘Tis So Sweet To Trust In Jesus yesterday. I loved it! Our worship team can take an old hymn and make it sound so good!
10. Our new 42,000 square facility is moving right along. The construction crew was working on Saturday.
11. Have I mentioned that we needed more space yesterday? It's CRAZY that a church of our size only has 17,500 square foot. People who say that a church can't grow without tons of space don't know what they're talking about.
12. Although a lack of space can and will cap your growth, if you get creative you can still grow. Beginning August 24, we will have 5 Sunday experiences. The first four experiences only have 15 minutes in between the experiences. That's called getting creative and maximizing what God has already given us. You have to do what you have to do with what you have to do it with :)!!
12. Have a super Monday!
Friday, August 1, 2008
Random Thoughts
2. Beginning on Sunday our new experience times are 8:45AM, 10AM, 11:15AM & 12:30PM.
3. This week we began the NEW normal in the Cooper home. We now have four precious kiddos.
4. My wife is so graceful with four kids. She makes it look so easy. Tiffany, you are a great mom to our kids and a super wife to me. I LOVE YOU!
5. My friend and one of the key mentors who speaks into my life just released his fourth book called "IT". Craig Groeschel is one of the best leaders on the planet and is just a down right super great guy. You can order the book here.
6. On August 31, we are beginning a series called Roommates, Bad Dates & Great Mates. Going to be a HOT, HOT, I mean RED HOT SERIES!
7. Ignite, the new college & 20 somethings experience is beginning on August 24 @ 6 PM @ People's Church! GET READY FOLKS!
8. Somebody's life is going to be changed forever this Sunday, and I'm excited about it.
9. I love what I get to do! Sometimes, I can't believe that I'm living my dream. I absolutely love my calling to pastor and teach God's Word!